Volume 3                         
   January 2009                                       Issue 1

 

From the CEO
By Dr. Peter Robbins

WILL YOU SHINE IN 2009?

“…and let us run with endurance the race that is set before us, 2. We do this by keeping our eyes on Jesus. He was willing to die a shameful death on the cross because of the joy He knew would be His afterward. Now He is seated in the place of highest honor beside God’s throne in heaven”
Hebrews 12:1b, 2 NLT

The Prize is Jesus Christ!


CAN I DEPEND ON YOU? YOU PROMISED… AT OUR WEDDING
By Dr. Kevin Downing
Facts and Fallacies of Intimacy: Part 5

I counseled a couple one time where the wife had nothing but criticism for her husband. He couldn’t do anything right. Even his attempts to help her were shot down by her cascades of perfectionist condemnations. She felt that there was no way that she could depend on him.

But then I found out that she was part of an outreach team that regularly went down to skid row to minister to the down and out, the street people. I said to her, “So let me get this right, you unconditionally show the love of Christ to the drunk sitting on the curb who hasn’t taken a bath in the last three months, let alone even worked a day. Then, you come home and are upset with your husband who has supported you for years and

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FROM THERAPISTS

CREATING TRADITIONS IN YOUR FAMILY
by Dr. Larry and Deb Walkemeyer, MFT

5.   CHRISTMAS:

  1. Special meal
  2. Reading the Christmas story
  3. Cutting your own tree
  4. Decorating the tree
  5. Playing special music
  6. Viewing the Christmas lights

6.    NEW YEAR:

  • Making those infamous resolutions
  • Pick three new traditions
  • Pray in the new year
  • Stay up until midnight and drink sparkling cider from champagne glasses

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FROM THERAPISTS

FUN HOUSE IMAGES
by Karen L. Kosman

My bedroom door opened, and Mom came in and sat down on my bed next to me. I burst into tears. I looked at her swollen pregnant stomach and her red-tear streaked face, and I stopped crying. “What does drunk mean?” I asked. “It means Dad drinks too much beer and wine.” “Why?” I asked. “I don’t know why, Karen, and I don’t know what to do to make things better.” I reached over and patted Mom’s hand. From that moment on...

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BEATING CREDIT CARD DEBT

By Ellise Walsh

Let’s start with gathering some knowledge about how the credit card industry works. Banks that issue credit cards count on their cardholders not being able to pay their balance in full each month. From the low teaser rates to those cash advance checks, credit card companies want you to spend more than you earn.

One of the secrets of the credit card industry is that they make a large proportion of their income from the finance charges, late payment fees and over limit charges assessed to their cardholders. You can use this knowledge to your advantage by...


15 FREE BUDGETING TOOLS
By Bob Lotich

Some of these budgeting tools are online applications, some are downloadable software, some are for Windows, some are for Mac and Linux, some of them may have lots of bells and whistles, and some may be overly simplified.

I suggest you dig through and see what works for your budget. Every person is different, therefore every budget will be different. It may take some time to find what fits you best, but it is out there and ...

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MORTGAGE PAYMENTS SENDING YOU REELING? HERE’S WHAT TO DO
Federal Trade Commission

Before you have any conversation with your loan servicer, prepare. Record your income and expenses, and calculate the equity in your home. To calculate the equity, estimate the market value less the balance of your first and any second mortgage or home equity loan. Then, write down the answers to the following questions:

  • What happened to make you miss your mortgage payment(s)? Do you have any documents to back up your explanation for falling behind? How have you tried to resolve the problem?
  • Is your problem temporary, long-term, or permanent? What changes in your situation do you see in the short term, and in the long term? What other financial issues may be stopping you from...

Featured Speaker of the Month

RESTORING GOD'S IMAGE: The Narrow Gate of Healing and Transformation
By John Del Grosso, M.A.
Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist

If we confess our sins, He is faithful and righteous to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.  I John 1:9

People usually come to my office because they’re in pain—grappling with addictions, affairs, anger, and other sinful behavior.  They’ve reached the end of their rope, and are desperate for freedom. And these are Christian clients! Most have been through healing seminars, weekend retreats, and other church-related programs.  Although the stories vary, one common feature is always present: They’ve all been taught that they can overcome their sinful behavior. The vehicle might...

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TPC's Licensed counselor, John Del Grosso, M.A. will be hosting two seminar events in January...

"The Scriptural Aspects of Healing" - John will be sharing from his new coming book, "Restoring God's Image" on January 17th - 10:00 am at the The Vineyard Church in Pomona. For more detailed information, call Vineyard Church at 909-621-6837

"Healing" - Anger Management Seminar - John will be doing a one day seminar in Chino at Inland Hills Church on January 31st. Don't miss out on this great opportunity for a new beginning in 2009! For more information, contact IHC at 909-393-1577

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SERVANT QUARTERS

WHEN YOU GIVE UP
by Gayle Erwin

Then, Jacob, recognizing who his opponent was, did the smartest thing available to him—he gave up. “You must not leave here until you bless me.” You miss this moment if you don’t understand contests in that ancient world. Then, since the winner was the stronger, he gave a gift to the loser. Gift-giving was a show of strength! So, then, if you had a case filled with trophies, you would merely show how often you lost.

When Jacob demanded to be blessed, he was calling himself the loser. God’s response?...

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